Friends of Ruby Home

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In the Moss Park community, located between Jarvis and Sherbourne Street, on 257 Dundas street, you will find a colourful rainbow accented building that The Friends of Ruby call “Home”.

The Friends of Ruby Home was designed to appeal to youth, not just any youth, but LGBTQI2S youth between the ages of 16 - 29 years who are in need of transitional housing and support.

Friends of Ruby was founded in 2014 by Egale Canada as Egale Youth Services to meet the needs of LGBTQI2S youth in the Greater Toronto Area. LGBTQI2S refers to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex and Two-Spirited. The catalyst for providing the home was Egale’s “Not under my roof” study that shone light on the crisis of LGBTQI2S youth homelessness due to disproportionately high rates of family rejection, violence and trauma.

“Not under my roof” is a sentence that many LGBTQI2S youth hear at a sensitive age, growing up with their families. It's a repetitive message of rejection, harassment, and unacceptance that they have to deal with while exploring their identities.

According to Lucy Gallo, the Director of Youth Services and Housing, the Friends of Ruby Home is a powerful place that aims to assist young people to overcome the traumas and rejection that they have experienced in their lives, and even sometimes violence.

 The Friends of Ruby Home is inspiring at many levels not only in the design but also in the name.

“ A few years back, there was a young person who had many traumas and many struggle,” say’s Gallo. “Ruby used to be a regular visitor to the space and this person would only connect with Ruby. This person wasn’t engaging or connecting with any other activities or youth.” said Gallo.

Only Ruby, the name of the Golden Retriever that would visit at the house, could break the ice with her. Working with Ruby, staff was able to build a bridge between this young person and the rest of the youth.

According to Gallo, Ruby was a connecting point for this young person. Ruby then became a part of the support team and that’s how they got the name.

Friends of Ruby Home located in the Moss Park community, is unique among services to LGBTQI2S youth because it offers Mental health and housing services, instead of just mental health supports.

Unfortunately, there are many young people from the LGBTQI2S that have suicidal thoughts due to the high rates of family rejections and the traumas they face. In addition, Black, indigenous, and People of Color in the LGTBQI2S community have been particularly affected during Covid-19 pandemic. By offering counseling services, and a warm supportive home environment, Friends of Ruby Home, enables young people to find themselves and their lives again.

The acquisition, design and construction of the Friends of Ruby Home came to life through the sponsorship of the City of Toronto, Toronto Community Corporation, Daniels Corporation and Yabu Pushelberg.

This partnership reminds us that it takes a village to raise a home!

To watch the interview:
https://youtu.be/U7GjkbY4tpw


Written by
Nea Maaty

Journalist
FOCUS Media Arts Centre

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